So I was out the other night with some friends and they invited my ex girlfriend who was my first ever girlfriend (I’m 28 and we broke up 10 years ago). We dated for 4 years, I was madly in love with her, I lost my virginity to her and I thought we would get married one day. Soon after I turned 16 my mother started getting sick and it’s 2008 and my dad lost…
Please share your stories/experiences if you can relate. I have very strong reasons to believe that I was neglected in my development as a child. Not the physical kind or the abusive neglect to the point where it was literally putting my life in danger kind. I was always given proper food, clothing, was taken to the doctor when I was sick and taken care of etc but I was never taught anything by my…
Seems like everyone is so invested in the mindset of getting a great job that they actually tie there self worth to there ability to get some mind enslaving corporate job. To be completely honest, I’ve always been lazy when it comes to “work”, not because I’m incapable because I’m very much am capable of going that route, but I just see it as probably one of the biggest sinks for your time and soul.…
I don’t know if anyone will care much for this story. But I’ll write it out because it’s real, it happened to me. it’d function a red-pill for you, or if I’m honest, I just want to urge it off my chest. I’ve been MGTOW for nearly 4 years. I’ve dated and slept with women therein time, but since my future (7 year) relationship ended with my fiancee telling me she can’t get pregnant, then her getting pregnant to…
TL;DR: Man decides to Go His Own Way while staying in his marriage after realizing that his dependence on his wife was turning her off. A few months later when his life has its own purpose, she finds him attractive again. My situation was like so many I see here, me HLM her LLF (or so it seemed to me at the time) both in our early thirties with two young children both over 5.…
…you are your own master. Never had a girlfriend. Friend-zoned every time, with girls saying “You are good but not boyfriend good”. Love for me has always been one directional. In high school I was ridiculed for being ugly, girls shunned me. I was miserable, felt unwanted, and depressed. In college I was ridiculed for being ugly, girls shunned me. I felt, am I destined to die alone? Why do I have to be the…
I was so dead in love with my highschool gf and we broke off before we left for college. I couldn’t cross the se* line with any girl during 4 years of my graduation(CS Engineering) because I felt that in my heart it was not over. Come job time, she reached back and I foolishly (but eagerly) got back with her. We were still states apart so it was a long distance situation. We talked…
I have never been extremely successful with women. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve dated and had girlfriends, lost my virginity at 19 etc. But rejection was a common theme. I was always drawn to beautiful women and never gave women below my standards the time of day. After graduating from college and building a successful career in STEM I started using dating apps (8 years ago). I found that all of the women I was…
